Posted by rskontos on October 29, 2007, at 9:33:30
In reply to Re: so alone...**Trigger**, posted by JoniS on October 29, 2007, at 8:19:29
B2c, Joni is right you are not alone and please don't let that sweet baby not ever know her mom. My mother died when I was 27 and my sister was 17; that was hard enough not having her around when I had babies etc. so please don't do that to her. And yes don't let the abuser win. Take charge of your life, work abuse none of those things define you, you define you. Depression, anxiety doesn't define you. What was done to you those experiences shaped you but you can change how you react now to life as you control your life now. In the past as a child you had no control but you can control it now. You are strong intelligent wonderful and you can get past all this crap from work etc. So you messed up. It happens. You will get through this don't let it destroy you. You might even mess up again that happens all along life because you are human and mistakes will be made. You have a child they seem to bring out mistakes too. I have two kids and boy they will as they get older point out your mistakes in case you don't see them. You will be ok, you will weather this difficult time. Look what you have already survived. You are strong and I am so sorry I cant take it away for you and all Babblers. At least we are here for each other. Thank god for that. Take heart and be kind to yourself. You deserve it. WE care about you!!!!! rk
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