Posted by RealMe on October 23, 2007, at 21:57:42
In reply to Re: Twinleaf you ok? » rskontos, posted by twinleaf on October 23, 2007, at 21:38:22
When you can, twinleaf, I would like to hear how it is you deal with the feelings of abuse as they come up. This is so hard for me, and it is hard to feel good and/or safe about being connected. I am afraid of the sexual feelings that come up, and I know my T keeps bring up about our relationship. So, I guess I will just have to talk about it as I have a lot of concernes about what it really means to be connected, close, to love, etc. Sometimes I am not sure I really know what it all means. In the abstract I know what it means, but for me personally, I am not so sure. We laughed again today, though, about my saying that instead of getting into drugs and alcohol when I was in college, I just went nuts instead. I was laughing, and he started to laugh too and seemed like he thought he shouldn't laugh, but I encouraged him.
I am glad to hear your therapy is going well. And, rskontos, how goes it for you with therapy?
RealMe
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