Posted by rskontos on October 22, 2007, at 18:26:33
In reply to Allowed to HUG my Therapist????, posted by moonlightsonata on October 21, 2007, at 19:33:18
moonlightsonta, I think in light of the upcoming move your T will relax the rules. I never want hugs and most of the time I am paralized to give or rec'd them unless I have loads of advance warnings but I do understand the need. i have the need but I can't get past the trust issues. Go ahead and ask I think your T will surprise you. Good luck and I know this is a truly a hard time for you and so sorry for the pain. I think the first situation with the 1st T and faith healer was a very traumatic experience and your 2nd T helped you get over that so it is so understandable why you are so close to her and afraid to give that up. She made you feel safe again. That is a hard thing to lose.
I too would be very nervous losing that support system and it seems that you too became friends in the process. She should be able to help some with getting you ready for it. Ask her for help. And a hug she will be there to help and good luck. Let us know how it goes.....rk
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