Posted by rskontos on October 12, 2007, at 17:29:11
In reply to Re: So if YOU were the T..would this make you mad? » muffled, posted by Poet on October 12, 2007, at 17:14:01
M, if I were your T I would not get mad I would recognize that your just needing reassurance. You have a hard time wondering why anyone would find it easy it be around all the parts of you. I guess maybe you find it hard too. I know I do and I am scared. I wonder why a T would get so caught up into it. But if you think about the life of a T you know that they choose this field because they want to help.It is too stressful not to. For your T to have hung in as long as she has then I don't think she will dump you see wants to help you and she knows dumping you is what you expects. Every one of us with inner voices expects it, it is why we have them in the first place. We have been through trauma that caused us to split ourselves off from the trauma to create this inner id to deal with what we couldn't. Knowing that she won't do what you expect because a good T does what she needs to do to help her patient. And I think yours is good.
Now if she does cancell Tuesday meeting it might be because meeting the Prime minister might take priority. HHAHAHAHA. I laughed when I read that too. No seriously, It probably doesn't help you because she is gone so much. Gives you too much time to think about things.
Still she should be strong enough to handle anything and everything you dump on her. I think she will see you through this. rk
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