Posted by muffled on September 30, 2007, at 17:03:48
In reply to My new T's resistance in this subject about old T, posted by happyflower on September 30, 2007, at 15:33:27
:-(
HF. Maybe he explains it as she was human, cuz she IS human, albeit a f*ck*d up human....
In this way it means that no abuse was your fault. You did not bring it upon yourself. Humans screw up. Myself included. You were not 'meant' to be hurt either. Your ma was just screwed up. Unfortunately you had to live with this. But you survived and gonna do good with all you have learned. Your Ma is not evil. Your not a spawn of an evil one. Your just the unfortunate child of a mentally ill person. And your oldT is human too, and he f*ck*d up. But hey, you a desirable one! LOL! so hey, it musta been hard for him. So again, your oldT didn't set out to hurt you, he has his flaws and got caught in them and hopefully will learn from this and be a better T in future. We can only hope.
So mebbe thats what he means?
That we live in a f*ck*d up world, full of imperfect humanity, and we goto do the best we can despite these challenges, despite the pain, and just try and be good as we can, and try our best, and help each other thru all the sh*t life chucks at us.
Maybe thats it.
Wish I had better words...
M
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