Posted by B2chica on May 2, 2007, at 11:39:53
In reply to Re: obsessed 'mother', posted by pegasus on May 2, 2007, at 10:04:11
i go back and forth about being 'worried' that 'mother' may get violent. i don't think she would Ever purposefully hurt my daughter. however, my history with her is that she can instantly becomes enraged and 'freak-out' (don't know how else to describe it). it is at these times that she is uncontrollable and unpredictable, she has no rational thinking. if i can prevent her from getting this way than she is mostly just a harrassing annoyance to me. but what scares (and increases anxiety) me is the unpredictability of it.
i've never had to do a restraining order and thought about just what you said. my concern is that unless you live it, the way i describe it is just some poor grandma that wants to see her granddaughter and i won't let her... if only they knew. its kinda like some stalkers...technically they don't threaten them, they are not harming them...just following their every move. its Very distressing but trying to tell cops makes you sound like the one with the problem. (luckily there are stalking laws now...but still can't apply to my issue)
well i see my T this afternoon and i plan on talking all about this with her.until then, i am now much calmer. Much stronger and ready to set limits no Matter What it takes.
i'll let you know how this weekend goes.thanks peg
b2c.
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