Posted by Scentedgarden on April 8, 2007, at 20:38:12
In reply to Re: Sincere apologies 4 causing distress 2 all of you » Scentedgarden, posted by frida on April 8, 2007, at 19:18:51
I am not saying that what we feel for them isnt real... feelings are feelings.... noone loves their therapist anymore then i love mine... im just saying what I said and i aint explaining it all again. .but pls, im not in a position that i want anyone feeling sad for me... i have as much love for my t as anyone on here....
all i felt like sayin g at the time is whats the point in getting all choked up about how we tell them and so on and so forth... as i doubt very much that they sit at home thinking about us... so in that respect if you read thru the archives of this board over the yrs day in and day out people are for want of a better word obsessed with their therapist... if thats difficult for anyone to read then maybe its cos it hits a chord with them ….i dont know.... im just being subjective… I don’t mean to hit chords but I cant please everyone here…I speak from myself only and I have been obsessed to a certain degree… depending on how you look at it… but if someone is on your mind and you count the days to see them and you think about them constantly and cant live without them …I wonder if that isn’t obsessed then you tell me what the heck is> lol….laughing now!
I never said it isnt real feelings... but they don’t come to us for love do they? they have other people to do that feeling with in their life... That's what i mean by keeping it real.. we are not out therapists friends...! we are not their children, and we are not their spouse. or sister or ever will be...that's all im saying
yes it precious ....yes its special....!!! I agree with all the positive things …. ITS VERY SPECIAL..VERY VERY OPRECIOUS<<<< I TOO WOULD NOT BE HERE WITHOUT THE RELATIONSHIP I HAVE WITH MINE>>>>> SO PLS DON’T MISINTERPRET ME>>> ALL I ASKED WAS, what’s the point?
i speak for myself when i say that.... and anyone who feels deeply for their therapist... im just saying what i said and i aint analysing it any fecking more... i gotta right to have my say just as much as anyone on here... yes i ry to be supportive... but is supportive always to molly coddle people... ive been told on here before flat out things that have hurt me when i confessed my feelings for my therapist and i took it on the chin....
im not taking away from the fact we love them... im just saying what i said about ..and i wont say sorry or explain it anymore...dont be sad for me... im fine thanks....dont think you know me cos i write a few posts here...everything is open to interpretation... and i just felt like saying what i said.... i wanted someone to show me the answer... it was a challenge for you all to tell me what the point it... it wasn't a negative thing... unless its interpreted negatively.... and i have no control over how the readers interpret the posts....
But I was looking for some positive feedback...for someone to take the challenge mentally and emotionally and in their heart and tell me what they think about the love flow from therapist to patient...to show me the point...
I wasn’t dissing the point.. i was genuinely asking for people to share with me the positives of it all...i have my own ideas ...on the positives of it all but i just wanted to hear yours too.... away i guess i shouldn't expect anyone to understand what the feck am talking about ... why would you its all subjective.... so lets not even bother to try ...im tired with this now... i think I'll have a break from the boards as well for a while... Good wishes to all who know me and who like me and to those who don't... i wish you all a happy week ahead with your comings and goings and your therapy sessions... THANK YOU ALL FOR CARING
take care bye bye
sg
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