Posted by gazo on April 7, 2007, at 13:47:13
In reply to Re: Difficult T this week (long), posted by jammerlich on April 7, 2007, at 9:29:03
Oh jammer.. at such a difficult time in your life it's more than unfair to have to deal with this.
You are going to need to deal with this in a big way i think. The termination last time is inexcusable IMO. It's no wonder you doubt her and feel like she might abandon you..cuz um... she did! How can you re-establish trust? right now, given everything else, trust is something you *need.*
You need and DESERVE trust, care and attention. You DESERVE to matter and not feel a luke-warm response. Those are big issues in your life and she should know that. It's her job.
i don't know jammer.. only you can tell if she is going to work out for you. If you want to stay with her then something has got to change in the dynamic. You need to feel secure. i hope that is not overstepping in any way.
you deserve so much better than life has handed you right now. Do remember that while a T holds a lot of power in the relationship, she works for you and you have every right to make decisions that are in your benefit.
take gentle care of yourself.
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