Posted by canadagirl on March 20, 2007, at 9:50:50
In reply to Re: a newbie in love))canadagirl, posted by gazo on March 20, 2007, at 8:59:01
>>It seems cruel that I need a T to get over my T. <<
I had to laugh here because this is exactly what I thought about myself.
>>Will I fall for this one too? <<
I thought about that with #2 as well, but nope, no chemistry. LOL
>>I am spending more time trying to deal with this than the original issue which drove me into therapy in the first place. This is all consuming and I am neglecting important responsibilities. <<
Yes, I hear ya! But I also believe it won't last forever. I believe it is worse because it is a "forced separation" as he moved right? (As mine was, because the insurance ran out and I couldn't go back to that particular provider as it was connected to a former workplace). I think it is way worse than when you can terminate in your own time. That's part of it, I think. Those intense feelings are part of the separation and the fact that there was no real closure. I think that is a huge part of the loss. But in my experience, it does get better, it just takes time. You likely won't always feel so distracted and in such pain, it just feels right now like it will never end.
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