Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 17, 2007, at 13:54:55
In reply to Tormented by dependence on T., posted by trvlr on March 17, 2007, at 2:08:09
welcome to babble trlr. Sorry the server is not usu so SLOW!
I think MANY of us here on babble struggle with just the same as you.
T is HARD and confusing, no doubt about it.
I am just starting to learn how the heck I am supposed to get those unmet needs met. My T is away so I am in a holding pattern right now.
I don't think we need our mothers etc, so much as we needed what we should have gotten from them (nurture etc). So as far as I can figger at this point is we need to get this stuff in our lives elsewhere. We need to nurture ourownselves, we need to nurture others, we need to have close relationships with others outside of T.
But......I not exactly sure bout how to meet those 'needs'?
Anyhow, hopefully you'll get some ideas here.
Take care
poster:Iwillsurvive
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