Posted by muffled on February 5, 2007, at 11:34:56
In reply to I am falling in love with my therapist too!, posted by nychick on February 5, 2007, at 5:57:59
Hi, I am Muffled, welcome to babble.
I have not seen you here before.
It can be a good place of support.
Lots here. Boards and stuff. Don't be afraid to ask questions.
I am sorry to hear you got T-love probs.
Kinda fun to have those feelings in a way I reckon.
Titillating, exiting, intense.
I suspect it comes up alot cuz of the very nature of the T relationship. It IS intense, up close and personal. If not physically naked, we emotionally naked sometimes. Yup, its something all right.....
So I think having sexual feelings come up is not strange, but I am inclined to think they should not be encouraged. I think that there will only be hurt in the end.
Sorta like high school crush on teacher. Its so intense, so HOT, but not a good thing to actually fufill. And so it is let go and eventually forgotten. And its not 1/10 as intense as T relationship.
So while the feelings are real, I think they are also not real, if that makes sense.
You sound like a very pleasant person, I hope you have a wonderful marriage, congrats!
Muffled
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