Posted by pegasus on January 4, 2007, at 11:06:41
In reply to Feeling stuck **SI trigger**, posted by bent on January 4, 2007, at 10:31:18
Hi bent,
I'm sorry you're in this tough place.
You probably know that a lot of us will say that it would be good to tell your T as much as you can. If you can only do that by sending her a message today, then I'd say, go for it. I'm sure that's what she'd want. If you are afraid that it will mean that you'll have to talk about things that you simply cannot talk about, then maybe you can tell your T just that much. Most good Ts won't pressure you to talk about something when you're not ready. But if you put it out there on the table that there is something else that's causing you trouble, then at least your T will have a clue, and will most likely be in a better position to help you. Maybe you could just talk about being humiliated to tell her something. Working on that little aspect of it could be helpful to you, even if you don't want to talk about the actual content of your memory.
Good luck working with this. It sounds really really hard, but potentially a great opportunity too.
peg
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