Posted by bent on October 17, 2006, at 10:17:24
In reply to got a letter from anne, posted by wishingstar on October 17, 2006, at 9:48:24
I am glad you see your new T today. I am sorry you are upset. I know what you mean about wishing she hadnt sent that letter. I too probably would have prefered just not hearing from her. Perhaps she thought the letter would provide you with some closure. But to me that wouldnt be helpful after just seeing her. Sometimes I think T's are so used to the process of therapy that they can forget how much impact their actions have. Ending a relationship is a slow process for us and they need to remember that. The door needs to be closed slowly, not slammed in our faces. I understand your T's gesture, but I understand your pain more. I hope you find your session today to be helpful. Please dont worry about what the new T thinks. Sure, you are obsessing over this right now. I think most of us would. You need to let it out. You will get through it.
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