Posted by caraher on September 16, 2006, at 13:57:10
In reply to Re: a gesture, posted by ElaineM on September 16, 2006, at 13:41:40
(((El)))
Here's a real-life relationship tip... whining about how someone thanks you is not a classy move! Especially when you're supposed to be *helping* that someone learn how to relate more "normally" to others (which implies that sometimes the "right thing" will not be said). Presumably he does what he does for you because he wants to for your sake, not for the sake of a particular expression of gratitude.
So in this case I think your T is being socially inept, whether or not you said "the right thing."
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