Posted by Daisym on September 7, 2006, at 23:39:00
In reply to Re: He replied!!! Help me figure out what to say!, posted by pegasus on September 7, 2006, at 8:50:38
Peg,
I think both things you wrote are great. I'm sure he will want to talk to you since he is so central to what is happening in your work in therapy right now.
I can imagine it would still be an exposed nerve. I've spent the bulk of the last month reprocessing my attachment and trying to get comfortable with it all over again. Everytime something changes, I do this whole angst thing, trying to understand WHY I feel so deeply for my therapist. Today I asked him how long it would be OK for me to stay this attached. He said,"all the way through. And beyond that. I see it as fundamental to our work. And it's not only OK with me, I encourage it and hold it as a sacred trust." It is a connection not easily broken, so it makes total sense to me what your need is to touch base and reaffirm a few things. I hope it goes well.
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