Posted by pegasus on September 2, 2006, at 20:54:20
In reply to Re: Asked ex-T for phone session » pegasus, posted by Daisym on September 2, 2006, at 15:20:35
Yes, exactly. I don't know about the research, but I know in my heart that what you say about imprinting and not being able to switch is true. All the good juicy therapeutic relationship stuff just does not transfer. It's like he was another parent.
And . . . I'm just tired of trying to articulate what I feel about that. I'm tired of being denied a relationship that was so helpful, just because he moved away. I'm tired of wedging myself into another relationship that simply doesn't fit as well.
thanks much for understanding
p
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