Posted by CatieCat on June 21, 2006, at 17:14:24
In reply to i feel sick, posted by Karolina on June 20, 2006, at 18:15:23
> I really do think I'll threaten suicide if he tries to terminate me.
Oooh shound like a plan! @@ Seriously, you've GOT to be kidding me! Oh good, trap him, force him to stay with you. Sounds like a great therapeutic relationship.
Sorry, I just cringe when people "threaten suicide". Sounds like you've got it all planned out. @@ Why not just talk to him? Not saying it will be easy, but threaten? Why manipulate the guy?
I had a friend threaten suicide if her T didn't take her back. Well the therapist stood her ground, and I guess I'm writing this for my friend who is no longer around to share her story.
> If he did...I think I would feel devastated, it would probably make me feel suicidal.
At least this is better. This is how you would feel; fine. *Feeling that way would be fine; it's normal. But, "I'll threaten....." (?) Please.
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