Posted by Tamar on June 7, 2006, at 10:59:28
In reply to Re: You won’t believe this!!!!! » Tamar, posted by annierose on June 7, 2006, at 6:30:41
> That is such a painful therapy moment, and one that I continually fear will happen. It would have been more than okay to let him see your tears. Now he has forgotten two important items. I'm glad he has admitted to his errors and hopefully he'll work like heck to repair his end of the relationship.
I hope so too. I think he will. But it's hard to believe he will remember to do it.
> I felt similar when I realized my regular therapy appointment time was given to another client. I sat in silence for several weeks, and she told me "I'm wondering how I can get the love back into this room." Then I knew she understood how I felt.
I can imagine that giving your appointment time to another client would hurt like hell. I'm glad she was able to understand that.
Yes! Absolutely. I want the love back in the room. If my therapist said something like that to me I guess I'd feel a bit better about it. But I can't imagine him saying the L-word in the context of our therapy. Oh, I'm so bitter...
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