Posted by Larry Hoover on May 24, 2006, at 18:59:13
In reply to Back to victimization..., posted by Racer on May 24, 2006, at 18:45:45
> Actually being helpless, though?
I have an instinctive response for you to consider. You have indeed isolated the aspect of this experience, and its re-experiencing, that is so hard to accept. I would suggest rephrasing it. It's more than semantics.
Option: You were not permitted an opportunity to exercise your right to choose.
Option: Your choose was expressed, but it was not listened to.
I don't know your truth, your true experience, so I don't know how to help you fit the words right. I think there is a way to say it. You just haven't found it, yet.
Lar
P.S. I LOVE the word yet. It changes *everything*.
poster:Larry Hoover
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