Posted by happyflower on May 9, 2006, at 11:38:50
In reply to Re: T wont stop talking! » Dinah, posted by wishingstar on May 9, 2006, at 9:51:37
Hi wishingstar!
I know everyone has given you some great ideas on what to do. I feel like my T does too much talking sometimes. But he has learned when to let me talk. It seems like when I am talking I look away and then when I am ready for his respons, I look at him. It seems to help because sometimes I am pausing on what I am saying because it is so hard to say and he is ready to fire his gun of a mouth sometimes before I get to finsih what I wanted to say.
Sometimes I tell him, look I have something I need to say, and I need you to be patient with me because I need to get it all out.
GOod luck, some T's like to talk and it is hard to get them to shut up. LOL Being direct is the way to be at least for me. ;-)
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