Posted by happyflower on April 25, 2006, at 17:03:35
In reply to Re: Why is the T relationship sometimes the hardest » happyflower, posted by orchid on April 25, 2006, at 14:44:45
Hi Orchid,
I know you haven't been around the boards for awhile, but I just did that a couple of months ago. I told him about my soul mate feeling and also about how I want a relationship with him after therapy.
What is interesting is that it has deepened our relationship but I think on both sides not just my feelings.
We are really getting into the nitty gritty of my emotions that I have had all my life, so I know and he knows that I am not ready to terminate. I guess you could say that we are in a very important part of therapy. The part that has taken me over a year, for me to share with him. He has even told me what I still need help with so we are not done yet.
I don't want to see anyone else, not after I have come so far , and I trust him more than anyone at the moment, he is and has helped me so much. We do great work together in spite of our feelings for each other. But I am sure our feelings will come to head eventually. I don't think he will hurt me intentionally, but I might get hurt not having him in my life after therapy, which will hurt no matter what. So I just need to plug away and I will get to everything when the time is right. I don't know if I am making much sense.
Thanks Orchid.
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