Posted by fallsfall on April 25, 2006, at 7:57:32
In reply to Thanks All., posted by Daisym on April 25, 2006, at 1:22:25
Yes, you chose this. But that doesn't mean that it isn't sad. Losing a marriage is sad, no matter how you feel about the marriage. You will need to grieve the loss of your marriage. It is OK to do that.
I know how hard it is to stop being responsible for someone who you have propped up for years. All I can say is that it has gotten easier for me over the years. And I'm glad I did it.
You sound like you are afraid to let yourself feel what you are feeling. Sounds like you are saying "I'm afraid to cry because I'm afraid I'll never be able to stop". You will stop. And then you'll cry again. but eventually it will get better.
I truly believe that this was a good decision for you. Lean on me.
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