Posted by milly on April 18, 2006, at 15:47:00
In reply to Can I ask my T for a reference?, posted by milly on April 15, 2006, at 16:36:41
I have pondered and pondered the job but although it is something I would ultimately like to do (working for a charity working with abused/ neglected children) I am not emotionally strong enough yet.
I would dearly like to discuss it with my T (as wisely suggested by your posts) but sadly therapy has ended with him, however I might write to him to tell him that I nearly asked him for a reference! I think it might have been appropriate if he had said yes because the job was going to require me to be in therapy anyway as support for the situations faced, they only want people who have some 'self awareness' and an understanding of therapy issues such as attatchment & boundarys.But I'm not going to apply so it doesn't matter now
milly
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