Posted by annierose on March 31, 2006, at 17:40:05
In reply to Re: of course i need to take back everything i sai » B2chica, posted by Dinah on March 31, 2006, at 17:04:56
Dinah -
I know how important therapists are. And I know how especially important your T is to you, and the special place you hold for him in your heart.
I feel your T has a responsibility to help you with all these feelings. Obviously I don't know what he is saying to you, nor you to him. But does he explore this with you? How do imagine it will be if you cannot see him regularly? What do you think will happen if you move?
My T would tell me that I may be reacting to a memory. That I would do much better than I fear. And we would talk about where that feeling might arise from. It would take several sessions, but I would get there with her help.
Sometimes it seems like you are the therapist and you want to protect him.
I do know how much he has helped you. But he needs to help you with this, now.
I hope you do not have to move.
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