Posted by LadyBug on February 15, 2006, at 14:54:48
In reply to Re: on knowing 'too much' about your T, posted by Dia on February 15, 2006, at 13:09:53
I googled my T. and as I type this I'm embarrassed to say, I googled her kids too. Once a long time ago, I was reading some newspaper ads and noticed in the houses for sale section; her address. So I got some brief info about her home and that it was for sale. I never said a thing to her, but wondered a lot about if she was moving and why. At a later date it was listed with a realator and to make a long story short, I had to check it out. I saw some pictures of the inside of her home. But about a year ago, I finally had the opportunity to tell her that I'd seen the pictures. I don't think she was crazy about me knowing but she realized if it's on the internet it's public and there's nothing she could do about it. I have found a bunch of info about other things that have to do with her, she is aware of some of it. I don't know about you, but it's a relief to me to know what I know because it takes away the thinking she's all that, or idealizing her so much.
With your situation, thats almost scary! But your normal!! I'd do it too. What kind of impact does it have on you as far as your work goes? And do you feel like you are deceiving her? Interesting isn't it?
LadyBug
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