Posted by Susan47 on February 9, 2006, at 17:25:25
In reply to What is so annoying though, posted by LegWarmers on February 9, 2006, at 17:02:44
> is that it doesnt explain my laziness and lack of motivation...or does it...
> maybe I get to caught up with things and then they get too much for me
> Im trying to remind myself that nothing matters, nothing is really *that* importantPeople are always told not to say "I know how you feel", we're taught that it's presumptuous to do that .. but .. well .. I know how you feel. :] I think you might be realizing though that being hard on yourself is cruel, you wouldn't be as hard on anyone else as you are on yourself .. and others are letting you know what they see, and it might very well be them acknowledging that you have a problem with your happiness. I mean, maybe it's not the lack of being able to take action that's the problem, that's more the symptom, and they're saying, I see the symptom .. can I help you with the problem? What IS the problem .. and you don't know, yet, but you know you're not comfortable in your skin so can't do anything because it's all too scary, the consequences are ... just scary. I've felt like that before and the feeling just grows and gets worse, unless you find a way to deal with it. I found pot .. and good friends .. knowing who friends are, what they feel like to my heart ... it's important to start with the positives, positive people will bring you happiness and the contentment, but it's finding them AND the drug AND the therapy ... Susan, you're preaching, you realize that you sound like you're preaching, do you not ???
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