Posted by crazy teresa on February 3, 2006, at 19:43:31
In reply to Organization and beauty issues, posted by quietheart on February 2, 2006, at 9:29:49
Just from reading your posts, you are very negative about yourself. Being positive is just as easy as being negative, and after a while your heart will start listening to what your head is telling it.
When you hear the inner voice start to say "I'm a slob, I'm so lazy, I'm so disorganized", stop the thoughts immediately and make yourself think something positive.
You could even go the next step and take a small action to counter the negative thought. Thinking you're a slob? Put the pizza box in the trashand praise yourself for doing so!
Why not try that for a while and see what happens? I bet you're surprised to hear how many negative things you're telling yourself without even realizing you're doing it. And unfortunately, your heart is believing it.
And you know what, I always feel better when I know I'm looking better. Maybe this is a good time to try a new hair cut, one that you won't have to spend a lot of time on. Get some new funky glasses, that are way hipper than you're feeling. I've never had one, but a Brazillian wax might make you feel pretty sexy (once the pain is gone!) Know what I mean?
Once you get into your new place, hire a housekeeper. Give yourself a break. If nothing else, think of it as your contribution towards simulating the economy...
Good luck with your new adventure! It sounds very exciting.
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