Posted by LittleGirlLost on February 2, 2006, at 9:15:11
Does anyone ever worry about their therapists age?
I don't consider my T to be old, but I would say she is in her early 60's. It's okay though because I like someone older. However.... I worry about something happening to her, and though I know that something can happen at any age, I do worry. I'm afraid to bring this up to her because I don't want it to seem like I'm calling her old, but I also wonder if people worry about their own mortality as they age, therefore I think it would be uncomfortable (or even depressing) for her if I were to bring it up. Though we've never spoke of any of this, she has told me that she is in excellent health and will still see me when she's 95. :)
However....
My uncle, who is about the same age as her, is now dying of cancer. A year ago, he was fine too... well, up until his dx. Now it's been a year of he**. Had a body scan this week and the cancer is just everywhere; there's nothing more they can do. That's it. I'm glad I saw him the other day, but I feel like I can't comprehend it all. He was always so active; loves to go fishing, has 2 boats, and just last year bought a huge RV. So I guess things can change rather quickly.I worry about my T every time I walk out her door, but I think seeing my uncle in this condition is triggering the feelings moreso. How do I bring this up to her? (while still being considerate of her feelings, which I know is not my job, but just the way I am.)
lgl
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