Posted by happyflower on January 21, 2006, at 11:38:55
In reply to Re: How do you push your T to talk about something? » happyflower, posted by Tabitha on January 21, 2006, at 10:46:24
I think we should be able to talk about this no matter what his views are about it. I just feel he is like, "well you are not going to ever convince me that fate is real", so shut up and forget about it. I have never encountered such strong beliefs from him, but what is bad is that he is closed minded to even talking about it.
I don't know what I believe, but I want to discuss it anyways.
I am not looking for any validation from him, I am not trying to convince him of something, and I don't need him to believe me. But what I do need is him to explore this with me. I was feeling good about all the coincedenses, it made me happy to connect in this way, but his pig headedness is making it all yucky for me.
It is just weird that he is being so narrow minded about this, and closed for discussion. Why do you all think he is being so stubborn? Any ideas?
He has even on said before that we have a lot in common. Why is he now trying to down playing all of it? Is there something going on with him that I am not aware of? It is so frusterating to me.
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