Posted by allisonross on November 29, 2005, at 15:27:35
In reply to uh-oh, posted by Shortelise on November 27, 2005, at 12:39:49
> Hi, ShortE: I am relataively new here, and I love how you write.
Forgive me for jumping in feet first into others' coversation.
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> I just want to say that I respect both Lipgloss and Voce for what they are saying.As I stated in a previous thread, I am in the same boat as happyflower....in love with my t for over 2 years. We have discussed it many times.
He handled/handles it delicately and ever so gently; like a feather when in falls on your hand; you cannot feel it (woops, gettin' poetical now, LOL, LOL)
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> Lipgloss, I trust that Happyflower's T has a handle on what's going on with her, and he'll help her through it. It's good to hear your "voice of reason", saying what you see as the truth in a gentle way. I personally need that truth from people sometimes, and I count on the people here to tell me.
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> Voce, I love that you point out that we are supportive of each other. I see nothing in Lipgloss's posts that are unuspportive, but obviously both you and Happyflower do, and your care for her is so reassuring.
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> There is so much care here. It warms me, and I hope this contretemps doesn't leave hurt feelings. Happyflower, really, I trust that you are on a journey of healing with your T, and that you can talk with him about all these feelings. You are so rich with emotion!I told happy, I thought we must be twins, LOL.....unrequited love is terribly painful, and I visit it every Sunday. I told him that I would rather "be in pain WITH him, that without him."
I felt we were soul-mates shortly after meeting him, and it just grew. I told him that he was ME, in male form, LOL........Only felt like that about 2 other men in my whole life.
Contretemps......haven't heard that word in so LONG....me being a lover of words, etc.
If you wish, you may read my poetry: www.churchabusepoetrytherapy.com
Kicked out of church after 31 years of abusive marriage ended in divorce.......going through the grieving process now; 5 months of dealing with the only fear I really ever had.....that of being alone.
Thank you for listening; I sense a kindred spirit.
Smiles, Ally
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> Hugs to all
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> ShortE
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