Posted by Dinah on November 28, 2005, at 13:04:01
In reply to Re: I'm sure having a lot of poster's regret latel, posted by caraher on November 28, 2005, at 10:23:37
I guess in that sense it was productive. Maybe it just wasn't satisfying. :)
I'm not entirely sure that it matters whether my therapist finds my body repulsive or not. I just don't want him to notice it. Sigh.
Believe it or not, my husband finds me attractive no matter what shape I'm in. So I'm not really lacking in positive regard from at least one man for my body. It's actually a bit astonishing to me, and it's a very positive quality that my husband has.
But then I've long suspected that one reason I gain weight is to become "invisible". Many people's eyes tend to go right past the overweight and unattractive.
poster:Dinah
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