Posted by Poet on November 18, 2005, at 9:53:44
In reply to My Homework, posted by daisym on November 16, 2005, at 19:44:42
Hi Daisy,
What your T said about being allowed to say no to stuff you don't like really hit home for me. I've been avoiding talking about *it* in therapy and think that you are so brave for facing it.
I am going to try to memorize what your T said: "you are allowed to say no to stuff you don't like or don't want to do, now or in the future. Just because someone else likes it or wants it, especially sexual things, doesn't mean you have to." For me add *you don't have to fake it to please someone else, either.*
Daisy, it's not your fault. Deep down I know it's not my fault either. It's just hard to remember because the pain of what happened distorts the truth of why it happened.
((((((Daisy)))))))
Poet
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