Posted by Dinah on November 8, 2005, at 9:36:34
In reply to Re: Wan smile » Dinah, posted by daisym on November 8, 2005, at 0:01:48
He honestly doesn't see it as meaning anything, unless I move. I don't get it. He admits that the relationship won't be the way it was. That I can't call him if I'm feeling bad and have him suggest an extra session. That if I want to see him more than once a week I need to drive three hours each way (2 1/2 at his driving speed, but 3 at mine), which makes it a full day proposition. But he doesn't see that as an insurmountable problem. Maybe it's a lack of commitment on my part that I do see it as a problem.
I find it a lot harder to talk with him about the possibility of moving. Because I don't really want him to be objective about it. :) And it's hard to take therapy out of the equation.
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