Posted by Susan47 on November 4, 2005, at 20:22:51
In reply to Re:Tamar: Bending Boundaries/or: Abusing Mysel, posted by allisonross on October 26, 2005, at 13:32:35
You said this "....i told my t that it was never a sexual thing for me (apparently it was for him);...."
but you couldn't say that today, could you? What made the difference between then and now? And were you even telling him the truth, Ally? I wonder if you were, and if you weren honest with you, because it doesn't sound like your attraction to him is all that recent.. you seem to be quite happy playing around with your attraction to him and not getting down to the business you know is at hand. So I'm wondering what this therapist is doing saying looking and hinting at that's keeping you stuck. And I'm wondering why he's doing it. And I'm thinking, Ally, you're not the only one. He has other women he does this with, maybe not right now, maybe not always, but you're not the first or the last either. Be careful Ally, you're going to learn, as I did, that you're playing with a shark. And you're a little old angelfish, well at least I was ... I remember when I used to try to dress the shark up in angel stripes. It didn't work, because he just kept proving that what mattered was him. Which is okay, because he's human and I can't fault him for that.
He just didn't know I was smart. Hell, I didn't know I was smart, why would he know?
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