Posted by Tamar on October 21, 2005, at 19:44:59
In reply to Re: So I went to the doctor… » Tamar, posted by daisym on October 21, 2005, at 19:06:30
> I'm glad you finally went. Taking care of yourself is a big part of healing from your trauma. I'm sure that your need for your therapist was equally triggered by all this and it may settle down again as the waves of emotion receed. But you've been talking about this one and off...is it time to restart? What does you husband think?
We’re on a waiting list for marriage therapy, so I’m hoping that will help… Maybe after that, if things still aren’t right, I’ll go back to my ex-therapist. It’s starting to feel more possible. Today I had a nap and I was thinking about talking to him about the transference stuff and for the first time I was able to imagine talking about it without becoming completely terrified. Progress!
> He sounds very cool, btw. Not too many men who would go to the Gyno with their wife, except for prenatal check ups. He gets a big thumbs up from me. :)
He is very cool. I didn’t even ask him; can you believe it? I told him I had made the appointment and he guessed that it would be a big deal for me and arranged to take the day off so that he could come with me if I wanted him too. He really is a sweetie.
> Take care of yourself this weekend. Don't push, sleep late and eat chocolate. Not necessarily in that order.
I am really *really* looking forward to the chocolate in particular! It’s always good to be advised to eat chocolate!
Many thanks,
Tamar
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