Posted by happyflower on October 21, 2005, at 16:54:46
In reply to Re: Confused, need some advice, please help please » happyflower, posted by orchid on October 21, 2005, at 16:36:11
I get the unequalnes of power and the fact that you pay the T for his help. But couldn't it still happen? I mean, like I used to work with a lot of guys all day long, but I didn't fall in love with any of them, but I guesss eventually I did, years later, which is my DH.
I know he sees clients all day, but isn't it at least possible for him to fall in love with someone once he got to know them. I can say that my T doesn't know everything about me and I don't know everything about him. But I do see his faults, and he has told me many, so I see him as a regular guy.But anyways, this is getting off track, I just want to make sense of what my T is doing and how I am feeling. I know about the common feelings in therapy, after all I am a babbler . Just because he is my T , I am reading his reactions and what he says all wrong? So are you saying the fact that since he is my T , he really doesn't like me because a T really can't care about a client or really like them because the client pays them or because he see's clients all day long?
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