Posted by LauraG on October 18, 2005, at 11:30:38
In reply to I am so sorry » LauraG, posted by Dinah on October 17, 2005, at 20:48:04
Thanks Dinah!
I'm not sure I could change her mind. I'm not even really sure how it is that she thinks she can help me better in group than she could in individual. It feels a but like a "squeeze play". By that I mean she knew I wanted to quit group but she didn't want to or feel that she could help me anymore in individual so she basically made it so she would be rid of me either way. No individual and if I quit group then "we can't work together anymore" her words for that. I know this is probably me being paranoid and she really is giving me her "professional opinion." I definitely got the impression that if I am able to open up a lot in group that we could resume individual, but it isn't clear to me why she thinks I could open up more in group. I sort of wonder if she just has more confidence in her ability as a group T?I have gotten a lot out of indiv. with her, but I haven't really changed anything yet. She has made all kinds of connections as to why I do and think certain things that I never would have thought of. It's been very eye opening, but I admit that I have been resistant to some of her ideas.
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