Posted by alexandra_k on October 8, 2005, at 20:01:40
In reply to My sessions this week ***maybe trigger***LONG, posted by antigua on October 7, 2005, at 11:47:30
(((((Antigua))))))
(hope you don't mind hugs)
i have a similar longing too...
one that doesn't seem to come up with females.
thats what got me wondering a little while back...
whether the transference that is experienced with male as opposed to female clinician's is different
(well, i know it is)
but about whether if you had a female clincian (for example) then you might not get to work through some of the stuff that you would be confronted with if you were working with a male clinician. and vice versa.
and so do we need to have therapy with different peoples (at different times) to work through all those transference issues or what?and i don't know...
and it is something that i still think on quite a lot.i felt like i had to be the good kid too.
couldn't acknowledge any pain or hurt or longing or anything. just had to be the good kid.and then he left...
and there it is.
but it is still hard thinking back on stuff...
thinking back on things that happened when i was a kid.
and i don't know...
i don't know what to make of it either.sounds like you are doing some really good work in therapy.
sounds like that extra session was really beneficial.
could you have some more of those???hang in there.
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