Posted by Susan47 on September 19, 2005, at 21:01:11
In reply to Re: Let me have my way with him! GOOD CURE!, posted by happyflower on September 14, 2005, at 20:22:19
Why, now why on earth would any of us ever tell you to stop it, when this is obviously so totally natural, feeling this way about your therapist must be such a common experience and we need to get it out of the closet about ourselves, we have to stop listening to all the friends who laugh and say, haha that's so Typical, that's the Oldest Story On Earth, yadayada bla bla bla Falling In Love With Your Therapist, there must be a manual for patients SOMEWHERE, telling them about the Dangers, the real emotional traps this sets us up into, this type of relationship. A Guidebook for the Transferentially (is that a word? if so, what does it mean???) Uninitiated.
Talk it out, sweetie.
Let out your lust, get the courage to tell him face to face. Hah! Wanna see a therapist Run? Run, Rabbit, Run! There was a movie by that name once, wasn't there, with Dustin Hoffman?
I think I'm losing my mind.
Yes, 'cause I was uninitiated too, and I didn't know I had so much to gain, so much to lose.You can stop reading now, I'm wandering here and just typing for the fun of it, partly maybe ...
And I totally was not prepared for the lust, for the passion, the growing desire for a man I previously hadn't laid eyes on, didn't honestly know from Adam.. a handsomely appealing, guileless-seeming, caring individual with a Ton of Sex Appeal ... how many women have been goners for this therapist? How many boners has he had with them in mind ... and how many opportunities exist for someone like that, not that he's taking advantage of anything, I think I was lucky or unattractive to him or maybe a bit of both, I made myself reprehensible, actually, and I believe now I did it subconsciously on purpose. Even, perhaps not so subconsciously.
I always knew something was up with those calls. Something more, something intensely important, but I don't know what.
WE NEED A GUIDEBOOK! WHERE IS IT? WHO'S WRITING IT? I saw that somewhere here, I'm sure of it.
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