Posted by shrinking violet on September 15, 2005, at 19:25:53
In reply to Re: sending letter to ex-t --- good or bad idea? » shrinking violet, posted by terrics on September 14, 2005, at 11:38:02
Hi terrics,
Hm, it may be uncomfortable, I don't know, but for me, I think seeing someone who knows my ex-T will help in a way that someone else couldn't. I won't have to explain much about my ex-T, because this T will already know. And, knowing her, could maybe provide some insights that someone else who doesn't know her wouldn't be able to. If that makes any sense.
I'm sorry your Ex-T's response was hurtful. I know that can be so very hard. I'm trying to prepare myself for the worst case before I do anything with the letter, because I have to put myself first.
Thank you,
SV> Hi SV, You must have left here about the same time I did. I just came back too. About writing a letter to your EX T: I did it and did not get a response and was hurt much more than I had been hurt during therapy. Also, did you consider that it may not be a good idea to go to a colleague of you EX T. Personally I would find it very uncomfortable. If I had a choice I would try to find someone on my own. Good luck. terics
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