Posted by cricket on September 8, 2005, at 13:13:20
In reply to Re: Difficult Times » cricket, posted by kerria on September 7, 2005, at 20:36:38
> i think your T should have been more supportive of the recent trauma.Yeah, unfortunately he's not really the supportive type. I guess I accept that about him. Once in a while I will get a caring look, never words.
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> Don't be afraid, you will be ok.
Thanks Kerria. It is scary. I do have one little part that is so timid and frail. Half of the time I think she's not going to make it.
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> Sometimes my littles think T is daddy. Not really but kind of- that he should take care of them and when he doesn't it feels bad and i feel bad for them if i am sensitive to them and not into my own stuff like most of the time.That really hasn't happened for me yet. Maybe it won't. I never had a father (never met him, doubt if he knows I exist) so I think they don't really understand the concept of daddy. They do desperately want someone to say, "it's okay, it's going to be okay" though but those words are not coming from my T, that's for sure.
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