Posted by littleone on August 31, 2005, at 21:48:49
In reply to Re: Control (long) » littleone, posted by JenStar on August 27, 2005, at 15:02:51
I talked to my T a bit more about this. He clarified this by explaining that he believes everyone is deserving and entitled to dignity (which I guess would include politeness). So he always treats people with dignity regardless of whether they want to be treated like that or not and regardless of what they think/feel about him.
And I think I can see that that is very different from being polite because you've been taught that's the right thing to do.
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