Posted by 10derHeart on August 15, 2005, at 23:32:58
In reply to Silly question :-), posted by All Done on August 15, 2005, at 23:08:25
Not silly at all, Laurie, and VERY important!
Male or female T? I can't recall...I suppose it depends on if you'd look forward to the reaction on his/her face, just to experience that, OR, if you're maybe worried about certain facial expressions and what they might mean to you....
Me, I would tell. But I'm notoriously chicken about certain things having to do with hair, clothes, weight - all body stuff, really. My T. can look any way he wants (although he's quite the master at neutral expressions) about other, deep stuff, but if I imagine he's disapproving or freaked out by my appearance, I'll end up wanting to crawl under the couch and cry.....yes, I have issues that still need soooo much work!
PS - I think it's so cool you're doing that.
PPS - I'd really like to *see* Dr. Bob "holding his horses,"....lol :-) (uhhh..that's NOT supposed to sound nasty or anything...just silly!!! I swear!!!)
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