Posted by Deneb on August 3, 2005, at 22:21:35
In reply to Re: Attachment problems, posted by alexandra_k on August 3, 2005, at 17:43:46
> > I think I have some major attachment problems with people. I don't seem to be able to attach to anyone.
>
> I feel like that sometimes...So sometimes you don't feel like that? :-)
> Part of them continuing to exist when we aren't around is to do with internalising them... So you might be having a bit of trouble and you can think 'I don't know what to do... What would my p-doc say???' and from there you can sort things out for yourself.
You know, funny thing, my p-doc always told me to think to myself, "What would (her name) tell me?" Maybe she was trying to help me with the whole internalizing thing.
> It takes time to attach.
> Really.
> I'm only just starting to feel attached to my current t
> And I've been seeing her for... Well... Almost a year now...I've seen my p-doc for about 3 years. :-(
> Do you think about the boards and people on the boards when you are off the boards? Think about what people might say to you?Hmmm...now that you mention it, not too much. :-( Sometimes I do, when direct references are made to my real life. Other times I think I feel like this world is another world. I'm not sure where I'm real anymore. Right now I'm thinking about Larry and his surgery. I think I really do care about people here.
It is difficult for me to think about what others would say to me at times...especially when I'm in a very emotional state. That is something I must learn to do...step out of myself...to look at things without my emotions colouring everything.
Thanks Alexandra...I don't know where I'll be without you! :-)
Deneb
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