Posted by Shortelise on July 23, 2005, at 22:14:06
In reply to Re: sorry about this post, maybe I should just shut up » happyflower, posted by 10derHeart on July 23, 2005, at 21:55:12
HF,
I don't want you to shut up either, and I don't see these as *your* dirty secrets.
Thank you for telling all of this. It helps.
I think that when we say these things, it releases something - it's like, that evil loses some of its power.
Once someone I didn't know very well mentioned, in context, that she didn't have a relationshp with her mother because she had been abusive, I found it perfectly understandable and acceptable. I said I was sorry to hear that, and we left it there, no big explanations, no judgments, no nothin'. You might get to that place. With your wonderful T, I think it's a pretty sure bet.
((happflower))
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