Posted by happyflower on June 26, 2005, at 19:40:16
In reply to Re: What is the thing about not giving gift to your T? » happyflower, posted by pinkeye on June 26, 2005, at 15:03:46
> The very fact that you still remember it after a month, and you are trying analyze it says to me that it means more to you than you acknowledge.
>Actually he brought up the cupcake a month later. When I gave it to him he said thankyou and seemed to really appreciate it. A month later he asked me if I wanted one of his charity braclets that he volunteers for . He said it was in exchange for the cupcake I brought him. Then thats when he told me all of that. I actually forgot all about it. lol
> And I do think, his saying that he didn't eat it and his wife and kid ate it and said it was good, somehow means he wanted to indicate to you that he is not encouraging your trying to be more affectionate towards him and wanted to kind of keep you in perspective.
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> Otherwise, he would have just said "yeah, it was good and I enjoyed it". I think he somehow wants you to understand that he doesn't want you to take him for more than what he is.This could all be true, I really don't know, it doesn't even matter too much to me. I just wanted to know what your take was on it. It reminded me of someones elses post( i think ladybug) about giving their T a picture that she took of her T. And then she later told her that she can't accept gifts. Thats why it reminded me of this. :)
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