Posted by happyflower on June 24, 2005, at 21:58:16
In reply to Re: Feeling better after I sent it » happyflower, posted by pinkeye on June 24, 2005, at 21:44:53
> thanks..
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> I wish I can learn how to take things lightly in life.. and let it go at that.I think you will feel a little lighter after doing this ! What you did, thinking about what to write, actually writing it, and sending it to him. You gave him much more respect than he did to you. I think you are amazing. I think this might be what you did to bring some closure to this. You deserve that for yourself! I think you did all you can do, but some people in our life will never appreciate us for what we do, no matter how good we are.
I had to move on from what my mother did to me ( I know it is different, but in a way it is the same). She could of done better, but no sorry is enough for me to allow her into my life. She ruined my childhood, and I won't allow her to ruin my adult life. I guess I don't know how I did this. I just did it one day, and said enough is enough, I am not going to allow her wrongs to hold me prison for the rest of my life. Do you have some of the old email from your T? Maybe you could burn them, and mourn him for one last time. I don't know what I am saying, so ignore it, if I am off track, or off my rocker! Stay safe tonight!
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