Posted by happyflower on June 23, 2005, at 16:25:52
I think my T is attracted to me, but tries to hide it. Should I ask him? Or if it is true and the secret is out, will he transfer me to someone else? Which is kinda funny because he himself is a supervisior to other T's but he has a private office. I really like him and would hate to lose the personal chemistry between us, by him really putting up big boundries for me. What if I am wrong? Do you think he will be honest with me? OR will he even answer my question? He hasn't done anything unethical but I think you can tell when someone is attracted to you. To me it is so obvious.
I also want to know why he seems uncomfortable when I talk about sex, sexual fantasies, etc. It is almost like he removes himself from the room. He lookes down or away, or sometimes gets a little embarrest in an innocent little boy way. Is is because he is old fashioned? Is it because he is uncomfortable because he is attracted to me? Or is it me being inappropiate? Or is it because he feels I am attracted to him? Or was, or maybe still. lol What are your take on this?
I have read that T's do get attracted sometimes to their clients. What would you do? Should I just shut up and enjoy making him swirm, or should I bring it out into the open and risk our theraputic relationship? I have never told him I am attracted to him, he may have noticed, but I never have said anything.
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