Posted by happyflower on June 13, 2005, at 17:00:17
In reply to in love with therpist, posted by isla on June 13, 2005, at 16:47:34
Hi isla!
It helps you to know that what you are feeling is very normal. It happened to me! But what I am concerned about is the appointments lasting that long. It is important for them to keep their boundries of time. My T keeps the 50 minutes almost always and doesn't go over in less he is in the middle of saying something. But the most he has ever gone over was like 10 minutes. But it seem like his other boundries are good. If you don't know anything about him personally, why do you think you are in love with him?
The things that I feel are strange, is why he isn't letting you leave? How does he do that?
But it also seem like he isn't letting you move forward. To me this is a warning sign, that maybe you might do better with another T. Have you talked about this to him before? I guess we need more information! But what you are feeling is normal. :) Everyone here is great resource for answering you questions! By the way, welcome!
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