Posted by happyflower on June 13, 2005, at 15:53:52
In reply to Re: feeling totally frusterated! » happyflower, posted by Tamar on June 13, 2005, at 12:54:55
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> Maybe he mentioned your being critical of him in order to encourage you to think about whether you are critical of other people too?
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Yeah, I think you might be right. I guess it is better for ME to see for myself that maybe I am doing this to other people other than him, then HIM telling me I am doing this. T's I think can be trickly ones! lol> Let him have it! I’m sure he can take it. Maybe he’ll help you understand why you feel so angry, and help you explore how you express and manage your anger. He sounds like a good T; I’m sure he can handle anything you throw at him.
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I will try to let him have it, I have done it before, and it was a very productive session! lol I am not afraid to let him know what I think, he knows that too! The first thing I do when I feel this way, I tell him he is probably going to kick me out of the room . He just laughs, but I think he says to himself, OH, BOY, here we go! He handles me well I must say.
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